Then some days had just run away again. I'm out at sea and have had quite much to do the last days. Feels good to be here. I just love it, and hate it. Usualy at the same time =)
But right now it's maybe not realy hate. More the irritated, stressed, chocked feeling wandering around inside me. Once again I have got reminded about the importens of good communication.
I can't realy see how difficult it should be to go out in time when things are decided and inform people that in some way can be affected. In some companies it can affect some persons if a "main system" close down for a couple of weeks even if the activity for the moment not are running. Other parties can maybe be needing big amounts of information or something like that. And with a preworning with e-mail about 3 hours before the shutdown at same time with other work running, it some times can be difficoult to prepare a couple of weeks work for a couple of different persons. But for some companies that maybe normal procedure, what do I know.
But it's not only in the world of companies and business that communication is very importent. It's even more important among friends, family and loved ones. Not talking and not knowing is usualy alot more painful then it should need to be.
Maybe it not always possible to have it like that, with good communication I meen. But to guess what's happening with someone that you don't see or don't hear from, you have no idea about the answer. And at least my brain often tries to tell me the worse alternative instead of the nicest and best. Don't realy understand why it's needed to be like that, but it's very easy to get there especialy in some specific areas in life. That a person can't answere the phone for the moment don't meen you need to be ignored. To not get an aswere on a mail, don't need to meen that the person ever want to see you again. And to not get contact in any way for a wail don't meen the person necessarily gone disappear for ever out of your life. Maybe they just are a bit busy for the moment, a bit drunk, having problems with the technique, or maybe all at the same time.
I probably just hate the thought about loosing people I love...
But right now it's maybe not realy hate. More the irritated, stressed, chocked feeling wandering around inside me. Once again I have got reminded about the importens of good communication.
I can't realy see how difficult it should be to go out in time when things are decided and inform people that in some way can be affected. In some companies it can affect some persons if a "main system" close down for a couple of weeks even if the activity for the moment not are running. Other parties can maybe be needing big amounts of information or something like that. And with a preworning with e-mail about 3 hours before the shutdown at same time with other work running, it some times can be difficoult to prepare a couple of weeks work for a couple of different persons. But for some companies that maybe normal procedure, what do I know.
But it's not only in the world of companies and business that communication is very importent. It's even more important among friends, family and loved ones. Not talking and not knowing is usualy alot more painful then it should need to be.
Maybe it not always possible to have it like that, with good communication I meen. But to guess what's happening with someone that you don't see or don't hear from, you have no idea about the answer. And at least my brain often tries to tell me the worse alternative instead of the nicest and best. Don't realy understand why it's needed to be like that, but it's very easy to get there especialy in some specific areas in life. That a person can't answere the phone for the moment don't meen you need to be ignored. To not get an aswere on a mail, don't need to meen that the person ever want to see you again. And to not get contact in any way for a wail don't meen the person necessarily gone disappear for ever out of your life. Maybe they just are a bit busy for the moment, a bit drunk, having problems with the technique, or maybe all at the same time.
I probably just hate the thought about loosing people I love...
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